What My Husband Means When He Says, ‘It’s Nothing’
“It’s nothing.” That phrase is often associated with women. Many have argued that women tend to obscure their…
Articles by Allyx Formalejo
Reflections on Pain After an Odd Jaw Bleed
It happened after a month of celebrations. First, it was Christmas and New Year’s. Then, it was my husband Jared’s…
My Husband Is Strong Because of Hemophilia
A sealed jar that no one can open. A faucet attachment that’s been screwed on too tightly. A piece of…
Without the Darkness, We Wouldn’t See the Light
In Chinese philosophy, the concepts of yin and yang represent two opposing forces that come together in synergy to complement…
My Husband Chose a Simple Birthday Celebration
My husband, Jared, recently celebrated his birthday. Hooray for 29 years of fighting and surviving! He opted for a low-key…
Leaving, Grieving, and New Beginnings
After three months of living in a rented condo, my family is moving to a full-size house. My husband,…
Caregiver Partners Need Support and Recognition, Too
I’m standing in line at a convenience store after my appointment at the salon. It’s almost lunchtime and my stomach…
How to Help Someone Who Is Chronically Ill
Helping others is nice. On the most basic level, helping another person can trigger positive emotions. It also creates…
Achieving Goals Can Provide Meaning and Fulfillment
Many young people enter adulthood with dreams and goals in mind. The burning desire to attain these goals drives…
Money Doesn’t Buy Happiness, but It Can Provide Options
“Money can buy happiness.” My younger self would have refused to buy into that idea. I would have retorted…