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As a hospice chaplain, I visit patients in homes and long-term care facilities. There is one facility I particularly enjoy visiting because I have a special relationship with the director of nursing. A couple years ago, I was speaking to a nurse about one of my patients when I noticed…

Sixteen years from symptoms to diagnosis. This statistic is quoted incessantly among women with bleeding disorders, describing the treacherous diagnostic journey we often endure. But what many don’t realize is that this figure came from one study of 75 women diagnosed with von Willebrand disease (VWD) who were registered…

Life when you’re married to someone with severe hemophilia B often feels unpredictable. One moment, everything seems fine, and the next, a spontaneous bleed or unexpected health concern throws everything into chaos. Over the years, I’ve learned to stay on high alert, always ready to shift gears at a…

It’s that time of year again when brackets are busted, Cinderella stories happen, and basketball fans everywhere are glued to the television for the madness of March. The NCAA basketball tournament is full of buzzer-beaters, heartbreak, and jaw-dropping comebacks. And oddly enough, for many of us living with bleeding disorders,…

Last weekend was a testament to the importance of community support for those who struggle with bleeding disorders. As the vice president of Sangre de Oro, the New Mexico chapter of the National Bleeding Disorders Foundation (NBDF), I’ve witnessed the challenges our organization has faced over the years.

“It’s been too long.” “Oh my goodness, your kids have grown!” “It’s been forever since we’ve seen each other.” These sentiments resonated as members of Sangre de Oro, the Bleeding Disorder Foundation of New Mexico, gathered for Family Education Weekend March 21-23 in Albuquerque. While many chapters around the…

Tracking factor VIII (FVIII) infusions can be a drag! When I started infusing it regularly to prevent bleeds caused by my hemophilia, I searched for an app to help. For hemophilia patients, it’s important for our medical providers to have a record of our bleeds and the treatment…

I made it to the Manila Pen Show here in the Philippines, and I couldn’t be happier! There’s something deeply satisfying about being in a space filled with fellow enthusiasts, surrounded by exquisite writing instruments and vibrant bottles of ink. For me, collecting fountain pens is more than just a…

There have been many moments in my life when I’ve blatantly thought, “If I die bleeding, I die bleeding.” Of course, I didn’t want to think that, but I felt like I had no other choice. When doctors brush off your bleeding, when you’re told, “You’re “just anemic,” when…

When my youngest son, Caeleb, was born over 19 years ago, my wife and I found out that he had hemophilia before leaving the hospital. Devastated, we could not begin to tell anyone how we felt about the diagnosis. I remembered our struggles raising my oldest son, Julian, now…