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I had a lot to learn about hemophilia when I attended my first retreat for women with bleeding disorders in 2017. Some of the attendees were comparing their levels of clotting factor VIII (FVIII), the protein that’s deficient in hemophilia A, when I was shocked to learn mine were the lowest…

Hemophilia doesn’t just alter bodies and routines. Over time, it can also quietly shape expectations about who leads, who manages risk, and who carries responsibility. These expectations are rarely spoken out loud, but they’re powerful enough to follow people into adulthood, partnerships, and marriage. What complicates things is that…

First in a series. Some people in the bleeding disorders community seem like they’re larger than life — not because they seek attention, but because their lives intersect with so many pivotal moments in our shared history. Lee Hall is one of those people. I know Hall through his advocacy…

Second in a series. Read part one. Both of my sons were diagnosed with severe hemophilia A a few days after they were born. But that’s where their similarities end. As I shared last week, things went smoothly after we switched to a more flexible way of caring…

Whenever I’m on social media, I find myself questioning everything. Is that picture real or made by AI? Is this headline accurate? Are these videos genuine? I mostly stick to following family and friends, though I do enjoy dog videos. When it comes to messages from strangers, I’m pretty cautious.

Hemophilia is sometimes a surprise in families. Research shows that approximately 30% of cases of hemophilia A and B are sporadic, meaning there’s no known family history. “This happens when a new alteration in the F8 or F9 gene occurs by chance in an egg cell or…

For a long time, I didn’t think about exhaustion or how it would occasionally surface in my marriage to someone with hemophilia. As someone with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), I tend to function well in high-pressure situations. Urgency sharpens me. When there’s a problem to solve or a…

For decades, people with hemophilia have benefited from remarkable advances in treatment. Meanwhile, many people living with von Willebrand disease (VWD) have continued relying on therapies developed more than 20 years ago. Too often, VWD itself has been misunderstood or minimized. Even getting diagnosed can be complicated.

First in a series. When our sons were babies, my wife and I depended on our home-care company to infuse them with a clotting agent to combat the internal bleeding caused by their hemophilia. Infusions require a steady hand to hold the needle, insert it into a…

As a chaplain, I am privileged to stand at the bedside of someone who is dying. Often, few words are exchanged. I know it is my presence there that matters most. When people learn that I work in hospice, they often say, “Oh, my goodness, that must be hard work.