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Why I’m afraid of surgery as someone with hemophilia

Note: This column describes the author’s own experiences with surgical procedures. Not everyone will have the same response to these operations. Consult your doctor about the potential risks and benefits of any procedure you’re considering. As I get older, the thought of needing any kind of surgery scares the…

In our family, action is the antidote to fear

There’s a saying that’s been on my mind a lot lately: “Action is the antidote to anxiety.” It resonates deeply, especially in our household, where uncertainty is part of daily life. My husband, Jared, has severe hemophilia B and epilepsy — two conditions that bring unique challenges. Together, they…

What it’s like managing hemophilia with an inhibitor, part 1

First in a series. Every person is unique, shaped by the combination of their upbringing, education, cultural influences, values, attitudes, and behaviors. No two people are exactly alike. Even identical twins, while genetically similar, have differences, including their fingerprints. Medical conditions can also emphasize a person’s individuality. While many may…

Flying through the air, even with hemophilia

The song “The Daring Young Man on the Flying Trapeze,” lyrics by George Leybourne and music by Gaston Lyle, plays loudly in my mind. As a child, I loved the lines “He’d fly through the air with the greatest of ease/ That daring young man on the flying…