Out-of-pocket maximum: This term is used by health insurance companies to inform customers of the maximum amount they may have to pay in a year for covered medical care, excluding premiums. Once this maximum is reached, the insurance plan covers 100% of eligible medical expenses for the rest of the…
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During my husband Jared’s recent hospitalization, I heard one particular sentence more times than I can count: “We’ll wait for Doc’s approval.” Jared was admitted for a burn on his hand, an injury that, on its own, often follows a fairly standard treatment path. But because he lives with…
Last year was a year of conferences for me — at least 10 by my count. It still amazes me that, in the hemophilia community, thousands of individuals and families are able to travel and attend these events at little or no cost, thanks to the support of event…
I often tell people that my mind is a dangerous neighborhood and that I should never venture into it alone. This usually gets a laugh, which the comic in me appreciates, as I often say it to lighten a difficult conversation. A little release of tension doesn’t hurt anyone. But…
My husband, Joe, and I recently officiated a marriage vow renewal for close friends in Santa Fe, New Mexico, one of our favorite places. We made a long weekend of it, spending time with friends, meeting new people, and enjoying each other’s company. The next morning, we had breakfast at…
When people learn that their loved one has hemophilia, they often jump straight to a mental checklist of risks: bleeding, injuries, factor, emergency plans. Safety becomes the headline. Over time, it can become the lens through which every choice is evaluated. But for many people…
I wasn’t doing anything unusual when it happened. I wasn’t exercising, rushing around, or kicking someone. I was simply walking around my house when I felt a sudden, sharp pain in the ball of my foot. Within seconds, it began to swell. A bruise appeared, purple, unmistakable, and completely uninvited.
The world often feels like an amusement park ride that does nothing but turn in circles, and we must gather the courage to get on. At first, everything spins at a moderate pace, but as the ride continues, the pace picks up, and suddenly everything spins so fast we can…
I love making quilts. Some people wonder why anyone would buy new fabric just to cut it up and sew it back together. It might sound odd, but for quilters like me, creating something by hand brings comfort, joy, and satisfaction. There is a rule when preparing to make…
Parenthood is full of surprises. Some are delightful, some are exhausting, and some are completely unpredictable. Add hemophilia to the mix, and everything becomes a little more complicated. Over the years, I’ve learned that balancing relationships, parenting, and a chronic condition is not about perfection. It is about understanding…
